Dating By Design Masterclass

Women in the second half of their lives face challenges navigating the modern dating scene. Dive into psychological and evolutionary insights to transform your approach to dating and create a legacy of wisdom and happiness because you see beyond the veils and lies we've become accustomed to believe.  VEIL #1:  The lie we are sold is that marriage is a burden and expensive. It locks you into something that feels suffocating and lonely, and the truth is, we've inverted the dating and mating roles and have it all backwards.   ** We hold on to "boyfriends" F O R E V E R even going to counseling with them BUT we give up fast in marriage, get the quick divorce and move on because we simply can!  This behavior is teaching our daughters that the sacred nature of marriage is not meant to protect them, and their life won't be the same. VEIL #2: The lie we are sold in the "boyfriend " department is that  I am free to do as I please and can walk away when he becomes burdensome.  In the meantime you become intimate, ignore red flags, stay too long, blow through your own money, time, effort all for an uncommitted future with this man.  We model this to our daughters and the pattern continues, even more contorted, into the next generation    **  Learn to become patient enough to say NO over and over to eliminate the takers. You naturally become his muse when you allow him to do his part, all on his own, without tampering.   Raising your standards for yourself will ripple out to the women in your field and they will raise their standards just by watching you hold your standards through disappointment, failure, deselection.  ** When you operate with proven structures to filter out men, FAST with little to no emotional attachment, that means you are working with a system. ** You learn to look for information not a man online so you don't waste time on the 95% that are fishing in a bucket. Learn to become an  energetic ninja using the "magic tool" of un-matching to move through the men with dignity.  ** You learn to test your boundaries safely, online and in person by navigating surface level conversations at the beginning to call their bluff.  ** You naturally avoid exhaustive traps and pit falls of late night texting and long conversations without physically meeting up for a planned adventure.